Thursday, December 22, 2011

Overcoming Spoiled Child

When children begin to leave the age of childhood, sometimes they are just spoiled. Even until the age of seven years or they already have a brother, sometimes they still like to whine like a brother who was a toddler. Usually spoiled child because his parents treated too much in keep all of the requests. What do kids ask, parents are always filled. As a result, if parents do not meet the demand until the child was whining and crying.

Spoiled children also occurs in the desire to remain close to their parents. Not uncommon in children who are still of school age are always competing with his younger brother to get a toddler from his mother's caresses.

What should you do as a parent to deal with spoiled children who are:

* Parents must have the will to no longer spoil the child. Spoiled one's behavior because all this what they want is always obeyed.
* Begin to not spoil the child and taught to live independently of the things small. For example familiarize children take their own uniforms, taking food or drink alone.
* Action to not spoil the child should also be done by parents or other caregivers, not just by one person.
* Make a communication with the child, that should be for the current age began to have responsibilities. Explain about priorities, that not all desired to be fulfilled.
* If the child is still ignores parents order with a whine or cry, give the sense that it is not true. Give hugs and support to calm the child.
* Parents should be consistent to not spoil the child, not just one or two days and then returned spoil them.
* Give praise when the child no longer whine when asking for something, so that children understand that parents are pleased when she began to change.

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